God's grace shows itself to me in many ways. Some are glorious and some are not. By the grace of God, for instance, I have enough to eat, a good place to live, money for my diabetes medications and meaningful work that provides many emotional, material and spiritual blessings. But just 0utside my office are children who go to sleep hungry, who wake up with nobody to say "good morning," and with only bleak prospects for having their basic needs met. This noon I drove to McDonalds for a late lunch and was heading back to the office to eat. At the stoplight a little boy approached my car, tapped on my window and held out a deformed hand to ask for money. He motioned to his stomach to indicate that he was hungry. In his eyes was a hunger that went beyond his need for something to eat to indicate a hopelessness at life in general. But he doesn't have the luxury of looking at his life reflectively. He was hungry, and was looking at the food that I had purchased at the drive through that was on the seat next to me, food that I could easily do without. I gave him a handful of fries and drove off. On other occasions I might have just shook my head and not given him anything. Nutritionists might say that he was better off with nothing than a greasy fry, I don't know. But as I drove away my mind came up with many questions that I have considered often in my 38 years in Cebu, questions that don't really have answers but weigh heavily on my heart on occasions such as this.
- Why does this little guy have nothing and I have everything? Is there a single thing about how I have lived my life that qualifies me for advantage? Has this little guy done anything wrong to deserve a withered arm and a hungry tummy?
- Why didn't I just give him my whole lunch instead of a few paltry fries? By suppertime I would be dining on a good meal and he would be hungry again. Likely, I just wanted him to go away from my car.
- What does he think about me and what I represent?
- If he ever does look to the future, does he have a shred of hope that things will get better for him? With little or no positive family or other adult influence, with no access to health care or decent education, and with daily exposure to the many dangers from living on the street, is there any chance whatsoever that he will? What will be different for him, his eventual children and theirs?
- What is life like without hope? Can I even begin to understand that?
The disparities of life in a country like the Philippines are hard to grasp. Living here provides graphic proof that God's grace has nothing to do with merit. Not a thing. That kid deserves a break much more than I ever do or will. All I can do, perhaps, is to think about why God called me to live much of my life here and not in the country of my birth. Some people think that, in choosing to live here, I forsook the luxuries of life for the difficulties of the third world. But I live in the lap of luxury here, too. I just have to pay an emotional price for doing so as I come face to face with people who struggle just to stay alive.
I've been dealing with these same questions for 38 years! At CSC we have been able to help lots of little guys like the one I saw today. We have taken in the hungry, the lame, the disfigured, the homeless. We have dispensed food, medicine, knowledge, even hope. But we aren't helping this little guy at all. Except for a fistfull of fries. Of course we can't help everyone, I know that. But that knowledge doesn't remove his image from my mind or, on the other hand, make his life one ounce better.
I pray for wisdom, to accept the things that I cannot change, to be an agent of positive change where I can, and to know the difference, even though knowing that difference does not provide emotional relief from the confrontations with hopelessness that are a part of life in a place like this. I guess the best way to accomplish the dictates of the above-cited Serenity Prayer is to focus on the things that I can change, not on what I cannot. On the tree, not the forest. But I'm very sure that there are things that I can change if I open my mind to them, to see people not as an inconvenience but an opportunity. Maybe I can use some of the incomprehensible advantages that have been bestowed on me to offer some measure of relief and, maybe, even hope to people like the little boy who I cannot get out of my head.
Teachers Learning
Teachers put in years of hard work learning in college to prepare themselves to step into the classroom to teach. There are many attributes which can characterize a good teacher—knowledge, preparation, enthusiasm, connecting with the students, patience, and on and on.
The ability to learn is one of the attributes that can benefit any teacher. There are new curriculums, methods, approaches, and theories. And every year there are new students.
All students are different. Some are similar in the ways they learn and how fast they understand and absorb knowledge. Others have a different pace and others need alternate explanations. A teacher’s ability to learn the best learning style, process, and pace for each student in the class is instrumental in helping the student understand the lesson.
The Children of Hope School teachers are impressive. There is a range of learning styles represented in the student body and the teachers have been working hard at understanding each student.
Here is one example. Wilmar is an active teenager who is still learning the sounds of each letter. His focus is easily broken and he sometimes has a hard time sitting still. However, he is enthusiastic about most things and is great at memorizing melodies and lyrics of songs. His confidence in front of a group of people has helped the adults around Wilmar to realize his learning capabilities and potential.
Wilmar’s class needed to put on a presentation for Buwan ng Wika, just like all the other classes. They chose to do a dance. Wilmar has trouble following set choreography and usually makes up his own moves. How does a teacher handle a student who struggles to follow set steps of dance, but is great in musical settings? Watch to see Teacher Alfie’s solution to help Wilmar’s class put on a good presentation with the participation of all students.
From big performances to basic classroom instructions, the teachers of Children of Hope School are meeting the students each and every day, learning how to guide them.
Group 1 Girls
Individualized Instruction (II) at CCHS is an intervention that helps students improve their academic skills, especially in reading. But teaching II with Group 1 has been a bit different since it is a group of lively little girls rather than a one-on-one session. They practice their beginning reading skills by reviewing their story selections and high frequency words. After that they choose a book from the classroom mini-library and I read it to them. The girls take turns choosing the book for the day. Recently one of the girls chose the book Why? by Miriam Frost. This book is full of “why” questions, so it’s perfect for building reading comprehension skills.
The conversation while reading the book with
the girls went something like this:
Question: Why is the snow cold and not warm?
Answer: Because it’s ice.
Question: Why do we fall down but not up?
Answer: Because we slide.
Question: Why do bats sleep upside down but not right side up?
Answer: Because the bats don’t have hands to hold. That’s why he sleeps that way.
Question: Why do we stand on our feet but not on our hands?
Answer: Alangan! matumba manta if mag tindog sa atong kamot. (English translation: We will fall down if we use our hands.) This was said in a tone of voice implying, oh come on teacher, you know the answer!
The girls are very cute! My prayer is that they will continue to love and value books as they grow up.
"BER" Months and Kid Volunteers
“Ber” Months and Kid Volunteers
September, October, November and December are known in the Philippines as the “Ber” months for obvious reasons. When these months arrive, Filipinos begin to get excited. These months herald the arrival of a celebration that most Filipinos love, and that is Christmas. Christmas music is played at times as early as the first few weeks of September.
Like most Filipinos, the children at the shelter are starting to think about Christmas. The kids who had experienced the month-long celebration at the shelter already told the new kids the fun things that happened last year. Some have already asked when the progressive dinner will be and some have started to wonder and ask what Santa will do for fun on Christmas eve.
One fun thing that happens at the shelter during December is the party for outreach kids. This year it will happen on Saturday, December 12. Two or three of the older kids usually help with the party by being on the registration table. When that is done, they help the other older kids by helping give away candies and other sweets while games are going on. Then they help distribute the snacks when it is time for that. Then when it is time for gifts and give-aways to be given, they also assist Santa with the distribution.
Julieto bagging give-aways.
Registration table
Girls having fun after helping the outreach party.
It is fun to see the kids helping other kids in need. And it is always fun when they volunteer themselves to help when help is needed.
Roles!
Workers at CSC have different roles. Some are childcare leaders, teachers, nurses, house parents, therapists, cooks, guards, and so on. Sometimes though, we go beyond our roles.
Uncle Ondoy is a house father at our Teen Home, but every now and then you see him sewing costumes for the kids’ school presentations.
Marwin is a Physical Therapist. Once in a while he dresses up like he’s Irish and serves Irish food. Therapists work between the shelter and school and they help in some school programs—like United Nations Day.
Roselyn is one of our adult residents at the Teen Home. She is now working at our school as a teaching assistant. Roselyn is also good with braille. She helps Arleen—also one of our adult residents—with transcribing words into braille.
Uncle Edwin is one of our trusted drivers. He knows which roads to take to cut distances. Sometimes you see him being silly on the playground with a toddler.
Everyone knows Joemar. He works at two branches of McDonald’s. Joemar also assists the janitors at school. But beyond that, he is a kind and loving friend to Ginda and Jacob.
And that is how we rock our roles at CSC!
United Nations Day
Friday was an exciting day at Cebu Children of Hope School! The kids got to travel to Russia, Spain, Albania, Ireland, and England. They presented their passport and had to answer questions in order to enter each country. Once admitted into the country they learned about their culture, famous attractions, did an art activity and sampled a food from that country.
In the afternoon two representatives
from each country dressed in their countries native attire. They were asked to
give a greeting from their country and answer questions in front of the
audience. Select students performed dances from some of the various countries.
At the end of the day the representatives from Russia were crowned Mister and
Miss United Nations 2015.